References & Resources

Scripture, books, and trusted materials that ground our ministry in God's Word.

Testimonials

Healthy families are the foundation of every thriving culture, and healthy marriages are the foundation of healthy families. As the lead pastor of a growing church, I regularly walk with couples facing challenges ranging from everyday struggles to marriages on the brink of divorce.

One Flesh Ministry exists to help churches build vibrant marriage ministries that strengthen biblical, one-flesh marriages and, in turn, strengthen families and communities.

Travis and Paula Bond are uniquely called and equipped for this work. Through God's restoration in their own marriage and more than seventeen years of mentoring couples, they have faithfully helped many marriages not only survive but flourish—including those facing seemingly impossible circumstances.

My wife and I are grateful to count Travis and Paula, among our dearest friends. Stonewater Fellowship is honored to partner with One Flesh Ministry as they help us and other churches establish marriage ministries that strengthen marriages, families, and our communities.

Scott Richerson

Lead Pastor and Elder, Stonewater Fellowship

"I have known and watched Travis and Paula Bond faithfully encourage and build into faithful marriages. Whether working in the premarital space or walking with people whose marriage is on fire, the Bond's bring a biblical framework and admonition to bear on the situation. I couldn't be more confident in recommending them for this new endeavor."

Pastor Matt Chandler

Matt Chandler

Lead Teaching Pastor, The Village Church

“I wholeheartedly recommend One Flesh Ministries and the work Travis and Paula Bond are leading. For years, they have faithfully strengthened marriages through biblical truth, practical discipleship, and compassionate care. Their ministry meets a critical need by equipping couples to build Christ-centered marriages that strengthen families, churches, and communities.

I have complete confidence in their character, calling, and faithful stewardship. Your support will enable them to equip more couples, train marriage mentors, partner with local churches, and expand the reach of this life-changing ministry. Every restored marriage creates a legacy that impacts families for generations.

I recommend One Flesh Ministries without reservation and encourage them in this important Kingdom work.”

Jon Almquist

Pastor and Elder, Springs Community Church

Recommended Reading

The Meaning of Marriage

Timothy & Kathy Keller

A deep exploration of what the Bible says about marriage and why it matters for the church and culture.

Sacred Marriage

Gary Thomas

Challenges couples to see how marriage is designed to make us holy more than to make us happy.

Love & Respect

Dr. Emerson Eggerichs

Unpacks the biblical truth that wives need love and husbands need respect — and how to break the crazy cycle.

His Needs, Her Needs

Willard F. Harley Jr.

Identifies the ten most important emotional needs of husbands and wives and how to meet them.

The Five Love Languages

Gary Chapman

Helps couples discover how they each give and receive love, and how to speak each other's language.

Boundaries in Marriage

Dr. Henry Cloud & Dr. John Townsend

Teaches couples how to take responsibility for their own feelings and actions while respecting each other's limits.

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